After a Death in the Family – Things to Do (checklist)

After a death: what to do when someone dies.

Things to do after a death, a useful checklist:  not all will be relevant to your circumstances, but it is not easy to remember everything you need to do when someone dies. It is always a stressful situation.  What to do after a death is continued in our free guide and after the video.

When someone dies, some related information:

If someone dies at home:

Call the family doctor and nearest relative immediately. If the death was expected, the doctor will give you a medical certificate showing the cause of death. They’ll also give you a formal notice saying they’ve signed the medical certificate and telling you how to register the death. If the person is to be cremated, you’ll need two certificates signed by different doctors. The Funeral Director will often arrange the second one.

If someone dies in hospital:

The hospital will usually issue a medical certificate and formal notice. The body will usually be kept in the hospital mortuary until the funeral directors or relatives arrange a chapel of rest, or for the body to be taken home.

Unexpected death

If someone dies unexpectedly, or the family doctor hasn’t seen them in the last 14 days, the death is reported to a coroner. A coroner is a doctor or lawyer responsible for investigating unexpected deaths. They may call for a post-mortem or inquest. This may take some time, so the funeral may need to be delayed. A surprisingly high proportion of deaths are referred to the coroner, so do not be concerned by it.

Registering a Death.

One of the first things to do after a death is to register the death.  For most areas we have the details for your locality HERE.  But do ring first – most insist on any appointment, and they may have moved. You will need to take along certain paperwork with you, so find that as soon as you can.  Why not download and print our helpful guide How Register a Death (PDF)?

Contact an undertaker (or several for quotes), after checking that there is no prepaid funeral plan. Be ready for a bit of gentle hard sell to get you to give your loved one “the send off they deserve.”  An increasing number of folk have thoughtfully taken out prepaid funeral plans or have insurance policies to help pay the expenses incurred after a death. The insurance ones may need probate before they can be released.  If possible, you should find out about these before a person dies and not scrambling around after the death.  You could end up paying for a funeral you don’t need.  If there is a proper prepaid funeral plan, then it is important to find it quickly.  It can be both embarrassing and expensive to instruct the wrong undertaker when the funeral has already been paid for and perhaps organised.

The undertaker won’t be able to go ahead until the death has been registered.

How long after a death is the funeral?

Provided the Coroner is not involved, the death can be registered immediately.  The funeral can be booked far enough ahead to alert those who might wish to attend or who would be hurt if they were not notified.

Who should I tell after a death?

  • Tell family members and friends about the death.
  • Employer or educational establishments.
  • Health professionals and cancel any appointments.
  • Care Agencies such as Social Services, home carers, meals on wheels and day centres.

Financial organisations to tell when someone dies.

  • Banks/National Savings/building societies.
  • Insurance companies (e.g. life, buildings/contents, medical, car, travel).
  • Pension providers.
  • Credit card/store card providers.
  • Any other financial institutions must be informed so that any accounts solely in the deceased’s name can be frozen to prevent fraud. You should also tell companies/organisations with joint accounts, although these should normally (but not always) still be accessible by the other joint holder.
  • Mortgage provider.
  • Landlord
  • Buildings and property insurance companies to make sure continued cover especially if the property is left unoccupied. There will be strict conditions and cover will be reduuced.  Vluablkes should be phtographed and removed to somewhere secure, with witnesses incase of dispute.
  • Utility companies (electricity, gas, water and telephone) and arrange transfer of account details if necessary.
  • TV/internet companies.

Government offices to tell after someone dies.

(See also the “Tell us once service” when registering the death.)

  • Pensions Service or Jobcentre Plus to cancel any benefits to the deceased or their carer.
  • Her Majesty’s Revenue and Customs to deal with tax and Child Benefit payments (if applicable).
  • Local government offices that offer services such as the Electoral Register, housing benefit, council tax office, bus pass, disabled parking permits, library membership.
  • The DVLA and the insurance company if the deceased owned a car (remember it is an offence to keep uninsured or untaxed car on the road) or held a driving licence.
  • The Passport Agency.

Other people to contact after a death.

  • Reduce the burden of any unwanted mail by registering with the Bereavement Register.
  • Clubs/membership organisations/social groups.
  • If the deceased held a firearms licence for work and/or recreational purposes, contact the local police station.
  • Redirecting the post.  Here are the Royal Mails instructions: “To arrange a Redirection of their mail after death, what do I need to do?   You can apply for a Redirection for the deceased at a Post Office® branch or by post. Please see the “Application in Special Circumstances” section of the terms and conditions. This details who is allowed to apply on the deceased’s behalf.  If you still need help call Royal Mail on 08457 777 888 or text phone 0845 600 0606. If you’re calling from outside the UK call +44 1782 668 007.

What NOT to do after a death:

One thing not to do after a death is to throw away all the deceased’s’ papers.  You will be surprised how often this happens, and it can add substantially to the cost of probate.  For example, the last 7 years bank statements might be needed, insurance policies or investment details could easily be lost.  If it is rented property or a care home, things can very easily get lost in the hurry to clear everything out so rent doesn’t keep accruing.

What to do after a death. What to do when someone dies.